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A Full Week

As I sat in church this morning and watched Ashton (quietly sitting on Grandpa Sterling’s lap), Cooper (contently snuggled in between Sterling and me), and Phoebe (cradled in my arms), I felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude—for so many things. I’ll focus on just a few tonight.

I’m grateful for our grandchildren who make my heart sing; a mother who happily helps me whenever she’s able; and a wonderful husband who loves and supports me and our family unconditionally.

Here are a couple of shots of the kids after church. I wanted so badly to take a photo of them during the perfect photo opportunity (described above), but that probably would have been a tad inappropriate!

The chance to watch Shalae and Jon’s children while they went to New York and Washington, D.C. (to explore graduate schools for Jon) has been a delight. The boys were busy running around and playing, and they kept us busy, too! Phoebe fussed a little during the days but slept well at night, and if I’d gone to bed instead of working or ordering Christmas gifts, I would have gotten a good night’s sleep. Although the children were almost angelic, this week-long experience has reminded me of being a young mother and not getting much done.

And I would have gotten less done if my Mom Pat hadn’t been here for much of the week. She comes about once a month, ever since my dear friend and housekeeper retired earlier this year, to clean the house and attack special projects for me. She’s been a lifesaver more than once this week—like when Cooper fell off his chair after dinner a few days ago. I was trying to calm him down while Phoebe cried and Sterling was taking care of another “accident” with Grandpa (his dad), so my mom dashed to the store to get children’s Tylenol. (You can’t see it in the photo very well, but his nose got bunged up a bit and his eye is bruised). We always make time to visit, and I’m always sad when she leaves!

Sterling and I didn’t get a lot of quality time together, but we did spend lots of time partnering. For example, I’d feed the baby while Sterling got dinner for the boys; I bathed Phoebe while he bathed the boys; and when I had meetings at Stampin’ Up! or spoke at Brigham Young University (BYU), Sterling took the boys to run errands while Phoebe stayed with the nanny (Shalae has someone come in for a few hours a couple times a week and I took advantage of that arrangement). You get the picture, I’m sure. Basically, Sterling quietly did whatever was needed. You know I love Sterling, and now you know another reason why!

Here’s a photo of Sterling fixing dinner tonight with the boys while I started on this entry—that is before Phoebe woke up and the night-time routine took over.

So, while it’s been a full seven days, I wouldn’t have changed a thing! I will admit, though, that I expect to get a lot more done this week. I’m even planning to go to the office almost every day, and that hasn’t happened for a long while!

Posted on Sunday, December 7, 2008 at 10:49PM by Registered CommenterShelli | Comments17 Comments

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Reader Comments (17)

They really are precious kids. You're very lucky!
Amy
December 7, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAmy Ward
You are awesome grandparents!! Are you ready for some more company? We'll see you in a couple weeks...get some sleep for crying out loud! -Sara

P.S. I don't know how you get everything done, tending to grandkids or not...U R a MACHINE!! xoxo
December 7, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersara douglass
I just love how you too can work your SU! business around family LOL!!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered Commentersharon davis
Shelli

You can really tell when you write about the kids and grand kids that you love them dearly!

I love what you have to say in your blog - I call in everyday or two to see if there is a new update.

Keep doing what you are doing - you really are quite fabulous!

Lisa Martin
Stampin' Up!
Qld, Australia :)
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterLisa Martin
You are a wonderful Grandmother! I wish I had someone like you when my son was young (he's almost 17 now) Now that I think of it, how would you like him for a few days LOL

Keep up the good work with the blog. I totally enjoy reading it
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJoy Willinger
It's wonderful to "check in on ya" every once in awhile, you are such an inspiration in so many ways, Shelley, and I appreciate that you let us into your life through your blog. You are a true role model, someone with wonderful family values, good work ethic and a fabulous sense of humor to boot! Keep it up, love it!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterEvelyn Wood
I really enjoy your hearfelt confessions and family moments you share with us. I read each and every one. You inspire me to hang in there and be the best I can be. And I agree, each and every one of us, have many, many things to be grateful for. Christmas Blessings to you and your family. Andrea B.
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAndrea Bolton
What a great post! I love hearing all about your family.
I do have a question that I hope is not too personal (you seem so willing to share!). I'm confused about your parents. This post mentions mom Pat, I know your mom died about a year ago, and then there seems to be Justine. Not trying to judge I just wonder how all these women fit into your life. Thanks.
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSHH
I love hearing about your grandchildren! I'm the proud grandma for one precious 2 1/2 who will be a big sister this spring. I never dreamed that being a grandmother would be so wonderful. I'm thankful to live only 5min. away from her. Thanks for sharing with us all.
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterDale Abraham
I love reading your posts. What a great week you had! I can't help but laugh at the comment about not getting anything done. We just had our third boy four weeks ago and I feel that same way. I was stamping last night at 11:00pm because he was sleeping. I think the Big Shot sounds helped him sleep!!!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStephanie
That's really wonderful - the whole story and photos. Great blog entry and sounds like it WAS a great week!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterStaci Miserlian
I loved the stories about all of the things you were grateful for. What I loved most though, was the fact that your daughter and her husband were looking at grad schools on the East Coast!! That means you'd be visiting in our neck of the woods! YAY! :)
Jen Cowart
Cranston, RI
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJen Cowart
Shelli, love your posts. I got to talk with Sterling at Conv. and could tell that he's a very special guy and now hearing on the blog all that you do together, I know it. You're both very talented in many ways! Thanks again for sharing with us!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterCindy
Shelli, I'm not sure where I've been all this time, but I just now found your blog..............what an inspriation.....love it, love it, love it............your are a jewel!!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterFrona
Shelli, I'm not sure where I've been all this time, but I just now found your blog..............what an inspriation.....love it, love it, love it............your are a jewel!!
December 8, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterFrona
Hi Shelly,
I just finished reading your latest blog. My mom passed away around this time last year too. I understand how your feeling & wanting to enjoy good memories today.
What I would like to say is remember one of the most precious gifts your mom has ever given you, time. Everyone has it, but many dont appreciate it. Value it as if it were gold. Cherish it as if it were a baby. Spend it wisely, as it can never be returned. And remember it with joy. If you can do these things, then you are a blessed person.
Sending blessings, and warm memories to you today & always,
Christie
December 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterChristie
Shelley - you and Sterling seem to be wonderful grandparents! I know how busy you are. I am wondering why you and your daughters don't get more help with cleaning services, cooks, etc. Your time, between your grandkids, children, and your work is so limited - and only YOU can do those things. Anyone can do the cleaning. Part of success is being able to enjoy these excellent benefits. Good luck to you, and be good to yourself!!
December 19, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterAnn B,

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